Hawke already gave too much.

[She'd lost her father, her home, and her sister in that order. Her brother had turned his back on her. She'd been gored in the fight with the Arishok, saved the damned city anyway, and then watched it turn against her.]

She was different then, at Adamant. She wasn't fresh-faced girl from Ferelden anymore. She'd grown up, and that was the worst thing the Maker could have done to her.